Monday, July 06, 2009

Early morning musings

I was up all night because I have to work early this morning. Just one more special thing that makes my life mine. I know I haven't written in quite some time, so here are my thoughts for today. Read between the lines, lovelies, and you may discover why my blog has been lacking.

I don't know how I feel on the whole "let's be friends" thing when a relationship is looking like it needs hospice care. On one hand, I hate to lose someone for whom I cared. On the other hand, I think it's a lovely excuse for the chicken. I think the whole “let’s remain in a close friendship” thing in the final stages of a relationship may be pure idiocy.

Of course “being friends” sounds like a good idea to somebody who ends up acting like they cared very little about me in the first place! They continue to put in minimal effort, and yet they still get the pleasure of having me in their life, caring about them. It’s like a video game cheat code for dating: key in up-up-down-down-left-left-right-right-B-A-B-A-select-start and you’ve got 100 extra guys! (That was an obscure reference for you Contra fans out there)

Put it on your toast for a low-calorie spread: “I Can’t Believe It’s Not Dating” will leave you fulfilled without any work on your part! “Close friendship” is like liposuction for relationships. I guess I'm at the point where I really want a boyfriend/relationship on whom I can depend, not another pal, but why do I feel like that is wrong?


urban princess said...

Um, NO. No, he doesn't get to remain close friends with you right now. NO. No, no, no, no, no, no, no.

Jared said...

Sorry for your frustration Holly. I'd have to agree with UP, bad idea. Lame excuse for him to feel better about things. I'm a firm believer in not being friends for some serious time after the relationship ends. I think I have a little street cred in this department. (:

Anonymous said...

The code for Contra was left right left right, not left left right right, and it was 30 guys per player. Also, I could probably tell you a thing or two about Jocco.

Anonymous said...

All's well that ends.